Happy weekend…or not?

Hey y’all.

So it’s been awhile and I suck i know. This weekend has been crazy and a rush and not in a good way. My great grandma is going into hospice and it’s only a few days is what everyone believes right now. It’s been hard to swallow this because it seems just a few min ago she could have lived a few more years. She was a big part of my life and I know she will be greatly missed when she’s gone. Christmas Eve will never be the same.

Now on to other things. I start my job on Thursday and I can’t wait! I’m going by Jake and he/him pronouns! So wish me luck. I’m hoping with this new job I can really start making small payments towards my surgery. I really want the surgery within a year or before Christmas. That’s my new plans now. So wish me luck.

That’s the update for now. See y’all soon!

-Jake

Coming out and the aftermath

Heyyyyyyyyyyyyy

Sorry its been awhile! I’ve been staying busy with life, family, and school. not working much sadly. Life of retail. BUT huge news! If your not following me on youtube then you dont know but i came out to my parents! yes big news, but it wasnt great the week after. They were okay with it the night of but the two or three days after were rough. The shock wore off and my Dad was having a hard time with it. He was yelling at EVERYONE, NOT JUST ME. He was yelling at my girlfriend blaming her, then yelling at my sister and mom since they knew before him. It was really rough. I was extremely depressed and didn’t want to do anything. I hated that he was taking it out on everyone when he should have just taken it out on me. its been about a week and a half since i told them. They are basically just putting their heads in the sand and ignoring it. My girlfriend and i have been able to go over and talk with them and hang out, but its awkward for me of course.

As of right now we are all doing okay. i’ve been over to my parents like everyday this week so far. im working on finding a new job and saving up for my surgery.  wish me luck.

-Jake

 

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Check out my YouTube videos with these links:

My Coming out story

Aftermath of my coming out part 1

Aftermath of my coming out part 2

Aftermath of my coming out part 3

It’s Saturday

Hey guys it’s Saturday and I’m being a little lazy. I have been pretty busy over the last few weeks since my last post. A lot has happened as well. I’m now a promoter for BrixBennet so go and check them out and use my code JAKE10. They have an amazing site and new shirts and more. They help a lot with transgender youth. I wanted to be apart of something amazing and help them raise money for transgender youth. So please go and check them out.

I also got an email from my surgeons office and they are going to hold August 2 for me so I can pay the deposit at my next paycheck. Go and donate to my youcaring fundraiser if you can or just share it as much as you can. I also have new merch on inktale I’ll add the link at the end of the post. Please remember all proceeds go towards my surgery fund.

Other than that I started school and I’m working early in the morning so I get tired when I get home. Working 4-12:30 or 4-9:30. Am this is all in the early early morning. So I’m sorry I’m exhausted by one. I’m trying to stay as active as possible and keep everyone as updated as possible.

I love y’all a lot you keep me going.

Til next time

Jake

Inktale store: inktale.com/Jacob-townsend

Youcaring: https://www.youcaring.com/jakeandrews-843735#goto-updates

Today…

Today starts my unplanned vacation from work. It’s kinda perfect though so I can start school and get ahead on my online class. So it’s perfect or that’s how we are looking at it! Gotta stay positive right?

Heads up I put a new YouTube video up about my two month on t update. Go and check it out here’s the link.

YouTube video

Also I’ll be posting about my new surgery date in the next few hours as well. I’ll post the link in a new blog post soon!

🙏🏻🙏🏻

Morning and top surgery

Good morning! I hope everyone had a good night sleep. I know my blogs have been pretty short but I will try and make them longer.

So my top surgery will now be in August to allow me to save more money and be able to pay it have more. I want to try and avoid getting a loan out or doing care credit as much as possible. I will be putting my deposit down within the next week or so. I don’t know what day in August yet since the surgeon hasn’t given his office the schedule yet. So I’m learning to be patient as much as possible. Please remember you can donate to my surgery fund or buy a shirt at my merch store. I’ll put the links below. Thank you all for being so supportive it means a lot to me!

Please help out however possible.

Merch Store

Surgery fund

Outback and shaving

Hey y’all! Good evening!

Right now I’m waiting for a table with my girlfriend and roommate at outback! 30 minute wait…

But onto sad news I had to unfortunately shave my mustache off since I’m not fully out at work or with family. I was proud of that light little mustache too. 😢😢😢 but one day I’ll grow it out with a full bread I hope. Send me positive vibes please!!

Have a good night!

Good morning

Good morning everyone!

I want to try and blog more so I got the app on my phone. ATM I’m sitting and listening to drama which is always fun! I’ve been dreaming of top surgery. I’ve had two dreams of top surgery, the first one my whole family was supportive and the top surgery came out amazing!! The second dream was only my mom and dad were supportive but the top surgery still came out good too.

So the conclusion of bob dreams for me is I’ll get top surgery and someone will be supportive. So I love dreams how about you?

Voice update!

Hey guys! So short post but my voice has dropped majorly!

So Ive noticed a major difference, have you?